In case you have suspicions that your partner is no longer faithful, you might be right. However, proving this without any evidence is very hard because you will have nothing else but your gut feeling. Finding out that your partner is cheating on you can be very painful and it can turn your life upside down. But, if you are determined to prove that you are right about that feeling, here are a few tips that can be helpful.
THESE ARE THE FIVE WAYS TO CATCH SOMEONE CHEATING:
1. CHECK THEIR PHONE AND/OR COMPUTER.
In this day and age, technology reigns supreme and has made it easier to cheat than ever before. The good news is it has also made it easier to catch someone two-timing, if they do not have a password or you know what it is. As the cellular/mobile telephone is what is hot right now, check all call logs, pictures, internet browser history, all messaging services used, and also watch out if your other half uses “incognito” frequently as it does not show in browser history. That is not to say that the work laptop is off limits; it could be the very point where the filth is taking place.
2. USE BUILT-IN APPS.
The iPhone has this built in to the phone so that you can find the device easily, however you can use it to know exactly where your life partner is at all times. Are they really working late or is it a pretext to stay out of the house to do who knows what? Once this is in place, all you have to do is find that location yourself and, if necessary, go there. This leads onto the next point perfectly.
3. SURPRISE VISITS OR FINISH WORK EARLY.
Be warned; this is where you really know what is going on in Trixie/Trevor’s life. Is Trixie being tricky intentionally? Is Trevor forever in the office like he says he is? If nothing bad is happening, your life partner will be glad to see you but be swamped with work. Of course, the worst case scenario is that you find them in a bar or hotel room with someone else after having lied to you. If your other half does not work, taking half a day off or going home early is a good way of separating the stories from the facts.
4. CHECK FOR SUSPICIOUS RECEIPTS.
If your dearly beloved is cheating on you, a paper trail is always likely. This could be anything from receipts from a hotel or pharmacy (for condoms or the pill) to lingerie or a weekend away, justifying it as “a business trip” or “training, and only employees can attend”. These receipts can be lying around in the glove compartment of the car or in some kind of pocket or handbag, left forgetfully after a rendez-vous or tryst.
5. HIRE A PRIVATE INVESTIGATOR (PI).
If you find nothing but are still sure that something is happening behind your back or if being a super sleuth is simply not your forte, hiring a PI is a great solution. Furthermore, these people are neutral in their opinions so you will not get any emotion or the PI taking sides; you will only get the cold, hard facts.Remember that, just like the erudite Edgar Allan Poe suggests, no-one is perfect or happier or wiser than our ancient counterparts, just busier. So if your significant other is getting busy, get busy yourself by proving it and stop the horrendous humiliation and crass mickey-taking at your expense.